However, the first hurdle is usually to find out what that “vision” or goal is for your future, the one that is supposed to bring you the long awaited fulfilment, peace and happiness.
You may often be more aware of what you don’t want, or no longer want, rather than the things you do want. Even if you do have some idea of what you want you may have an inherent belief that for some reason you cannot possibly get there, that you don’t deserve it, were never lucky anyway, are too poor, too old, too unfit, too unskilled - you name it. But the good new is that it is just that - a belief, a perception of yours that you hold on to so strongly because it actually serves a purpose that you may not yet be aware of (unconscious). This is often linked not only to an inherent fear of failure, but also a fear of success!