A love letter means taking the time to share your feelings and your reflections with the people you are invested in.  So, while this is not a love letter in the traditional sense, this is a letter that emphasizes the thought and care put into its messages.

So here is my love letter to you... I hope this letter provokes thought and a desire to be part of the conversation.     


What changes do you want to make this Spring?

The other day as I walked into my office, I heard the message “straighten up.” I thought it was a little odd since everything was pretty much in its place. Nothing was cluttered or out of order but that's what I heard, so I started straightening things around the office. It wasn't long before I discovered the oracle card for Balance underneath my chair.

I had been trying to think of a topic for my March newsletter. My guides were clearly on top of it, providing me with a clear message of what I needed to write about.

What is balance?

“Balance  ~  36  ~  Divine Teachers

Support, Codependency, Manipulation, Generosity

You are in the delicate process of learning how to properly balance the flow of give-and-take in your personal relationships, and it’s time to evaluate how you’re doing.

Are you giving too much, leaving you resentful and angry?  Or are you withholding when you could give more, leaving you feeling guilty and defensive?

Your Divine Teachers can help you learn how to better align your relationships so that you neither give nor take too much as a means of controlling others.  They counsel you to be honest about your motivations when dealing with others; you know in your heart of hearts what drives your interest in them.

Do you give with a secret agenda of ‘you owe me?’  Do you create dependency in and control over others with your kindness?  Or do you withhold for fear that you might be taken advantage of, keeping people guessing about your motives and your intentions?  

Your Divine Teachers are on hand to help you answer these questions.  They lovingly assure you that relationships are the most difficult of all spiritual classrooms, and the lessons of proper give-and-take are the most difficult of skills to learn.

Have compassion for yourself as you seek balance with others.   Ask your Divine Teachers to help you become more aware of how you give and receive in all relationships, not just the romantic kind.  Their message to you:

There’s no difference between giving and receiving love.”

The idea of finding balance was a much-needed message the day I stepped into my office, not only to share, but to make sure was implemented in my own life. 

Balance often gets confused with finding moderation. If you look at the words that are associated with this balance card, support, codependency, manipulation, and generosity, you see that these are not words associated with the time devoted to specific areas of our life. Instead, these words describe how we interact with others and participate in our lives.

The balance that I am talking about refers to motivations when dealing with others. It is about learning the process of give-and-take.

So what does the awareness around give-and-take look like?

Start with a simple situation. What do you do when somebody gives you a compliment? For example, your friend tells you that your hair looks great. How do you respond? Do you reject the compliment or simply say thank you?

Or reverse that example. How often do you offer a compliment?

Once you start noticing these simple interactions in your life, and examine how you accept and offer things, your awareness of balance will expand. You will begin to recognize give-and-take situations in more areas and feel greater balance as a whole.

So this spring, as we think about renewing and clearing out the old, make a change to seek more balance in your life.
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